Hello there!
I'm still here working away as time permits!
A few answers to your questions...
First off... I do not think the 555 is in backwards... if it is that might explain a lot...
As for the testing... I followed you directions to come up with the following:
Disconnected both AC and DC power.
Reconnected the DC Power
Pin 3 (Measured between Pin 3 and Pin

Measures 1.39V DC
Push the button
Pin 3 now measures 13.10V.
When pushing the button this continues to flip back and forth.
AC Applied:
Pin 3 is at 1.39V ==> Button is pushed and Pin 3 Volts goes UP to about 12.9, then within less than a second drops back to 1.39V Simultaneously the motor turns then stops turning. Pressing the button results in the same action each time with the motor ALWAYS going in the same direction, never reversing.
I am still using the initial values for R1, R2 and C2 (R1 & R2 = 10K And C2 = 100n)
Some images...
The Motor set-up
[img]http://im1.shutterfly.com/media/47a4dc07b3127ccef5216f46bd3500000030O00Ict3LFo1Ytwe3nww/cC/f%3D0/ls%3D00701541097920140226230326998.JPG/ps%3D50/r%3D0/rx%3D550/ry%3D400/[/img]
[img]http://im1.shutterfly.com/media/47a4dc07b3127ccef5208c7dddab00000030O00Ict3LFo1Ytwe3nww/cC/f%3D0/ls%3D00701541097920140226230322207.JPG/ps%3D50/r%3D0/rx%3D550/ry%3D400/[/img]
The circuit while testing
[img]http://im1.shutterfly.com/media/47a4dc07b3127ccef52080ca5c2a00000030O00Ict3LFo1Ytwe3nww/cC/f%3D0/ls%3D00701541097920140226230323006.JPG/ps%3D50/r%3D0/rx%3D550/ry%3D400/[/img]
and
[img]http://im1.shutterfly.com/media/47a4dc07b3127ccef5214515bd7300000030O00Ict3LFo1Ytwe3nww/cC/f%3D0/ls%3D00701541097920140226230325917.JPG/ps%3D50/r%3D0/rx%3D550/ry%3D400/[/img]
Again, thank you for all of your help! I really appreciate it! (I think these pictures are small enough?)
Adam